Don't want spouses teen child to live with us

Name: Ebony

Charlotte, NC

Number of kids: 1

Ages of kids: 19

Problem: I am presently dating a guy that has three children. I seem to have difficulty relating to his children. Whenever I make a commit about his children, which I realize seems to be negative because he thinks they can do no wrong. They are at the age of 16, 24 and 26. The sixteen year old which is a girl is my main concern. She only contacts her father when she wants him to give her money. He pays child support and is more than willing to give her what she wants when she wants. However, she never wants to spend time with him other than collecting funds. When we go on vacations, she constantly over powers her fathers attention and wants him to buy her every little item. When we're on vacation and if their are other teens around she will not socialize with them, however she would rather hang on to her father and come between him giving me attention than being with the teens. I feel that I am jealous of a teenage girl. Please help!

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